“I tried so hard, and got so far, in the End it doesn’t even
matter.” –Linkin Park
The above said words by
the babajis at Linkin Park summarise the end result of most of our futile efforts for
relationships, or in this case, Marriage.
I write about relationships, and other
shit that goes around in our stupid heads, hence I love the topic posed.
Now, im a 23 yr old, trying to figure out, which side of the
coin ill chose, if I make it to marriageable age,and at the same time, be marriageable.
So that was putting what’s yet to come, into context.
Most of us try so hard, to find girls to date. We google,
register at stupid websites like Adult friendfinder.com (or was that for some
other purpose?), we ask our friends to introduce us to chicks (dila de yaar bandi- in engineering lingo),we facebook to checkout chicks that
don’t have blocked pictures, however, we want our dear mommies to find us bride
material to marry. Why?
One, we don’t trust our judgement (whatever little we have
of it, left). I feel, we don’t view relationships as a long term engagement,
but as short term carnal affairs. Having said that, there are a million
exceptions, but the general populace would agree. Add to that, the difficulty
of finding one person of the opposite gender, that wants to stick around you.
Phew, hell of a difficult task at hand. Next the commitment phobia, that we
guys have, as much as we have hair. But assuming all of these are dealt with
strictly, and you somehow decide you CAN marry, then why an arranged marriage,
and if not then why a love marriage?
Now, I don’t want a Pulitzer for this post, so ill not
describe the beauty and sanctity of the sacred institution of marriage, neither
will I in my trademark way, abuse it. I will just show you the two coins, n not
just the two sides of the same coin.
Why Love Marriage.
Now, if not like me, you’re one mirror shattering-ly
beautiful guy, and you, unlike me, have your hands full with women, then the
obvious choice is for you to go along and marry one of them. But if you, are
one who keeps weird beard styles to take the attention away from whatever thing
you have to call a face, then can you take that risk? What if the chick is
after your money? (too cheesy?, so I was told). But the problem is all the
pretty girls are already taken, or they like women (true story!). So where will
you find one for yourself?
Why Arranged Marriage.
Now people that look like I do, love the concept of an
arranged marriage, wherein, you are given an option, you take it or leave it.
But things like taking a few years to even get to know the other person, do put
me off. However, in this case, you don’t face the risk of getting blamed for
anything your better (or worse) half does. So, its more of a win win, than the
other way. You don’t have to convince your parents, no family panga’s to deal with.Neat.
Bottomline, If you manage to find a good chick for yourself,
stick to her, and marry her. And if Not, well, what other option do u have left
then?
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